When Can You Snoop On Your Partner?
The advice columnist at MercuryNews.com suggests that in any relationship, and "especially if married" you should resist the urge to read your partner's email, even if they've been caught in Internet infidelity in the past. The columnist makes a good point; namely, why would you be with someone who had done such a thing before? However, in a marriage that perhaps includes children, it's a little harder to just pack the bags and go.
And then the article finishes with this summary, "under normal circumstances, respect their privacy." But, apparently actively cheating on you counts as an abnormal circumstance.
Respectfully, we would like to know how an individual would find out that their partner is cheating if they didn't check the email?
Sure, there are signs of Internet infidelity: late nights at the computer, secretive behavior with the computer, distance from the spouse and family.
But statistically, most people don't know they're being cheated on until it's too late.
This is why keystroke monitoring software is so popular these days. If your spouse displays any of the previously mentioned behaviors, you can know for sure what's going on. It's easy to set-up, easy to use, and totally invisible. It also records every webpage, email, and chat conversation.
Sure, you shouldn't snoop on a partner under "normal" circumstances, but under "normal" circumstances it wouldn't matter anyway, right?
And then the article finishes with this summary, "under normal circumstances, respect their privacy." But, apparently actively cheating on you counts as an abnormal circumstance.
Respectfully, we would like to know how an individual would find out that their partner is cheating if they didn't check the email?
Sure, there are signs of Internet infidelity: late nights at the computer, secretive behavior with the computer, distance from the spouse and family.
But statistically, most people don't know they're being cheated on until it's too late.
This is why keystroke monitoring software is so popular these days. If your spouse displays any of the previously mentioned behaviors, you can know for sure what's going on. It's easy to set-up, easy to use, and totally invisible. It also records every webpage, email, and chat conversation.
Sure, you shouldn't snoop on a partner under "normal" circumstances, but under "normal" circumstances it wouldn't matter anyway, right?
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